Two newspaper articles last weekend highlighted the need for father figures. 

On Friday, Tom McMahon noted that a father’s presence prevents worse case scenarios from happening in the lives of his children.  (“Fathers:  You Are Important,” The Post-Journal, 20 June 2008, sec. D-1)

On Saturday, Melissa Trujillo reported the story of 17 girls in Gloucester, MA. who “may have made a pact to have babies and raise them together.”  (“Teenage Pregnancy Pact Shocks Massachusetts Fishing Town,” The Post-Journal, 21 June 2008, sec. A-3)

I wish those young moms (all 16 or younger) knew how important a dad is for their babies.  Dads have a significant position of influence.  When a dad is involved in a child’s life, there is a role model in the flesh.  He is a realistic hero who is willing to admit shortcomings and say, “I’m sorry.”  A dad roughhouses with his kids but is willing to be gentle, too.  A dad is worthy of imitation because he shows that character counts.  He models integrity in treating his family with the same respect he extends to other people.  A dad is someone to look up to, as he looks up to his heavenly Father.  A dad is willing to be a servant, especially on his knees in prayer for each of his family.

Yes, a child needs a dad.  A dad who will be available every day, and who will instill a strong sense of identity by affirming the child’s worth as an individual and by being willing to say, “I’m proud of you!”

I love you Dad!

Sally